Thursday, September 6, 2007

What is Love?

hello friends.....As I m not an efficient writer, so it will be easier for u to undertand my blogs...lol.Well, m here to talk about love...n friends I really need your comments over it.What is Love?The question consists of three words, but the answer is speechless. Love cannot be defined infact. Love can only be experienced. We say that a person who don't have love in his life, belongs to the list of unfortunate people. That's perfectly true. But is the vice versa true?Now, that's another big question. There are certain people in the world who belongs to the another list of unfortunate people, they are having love in there lives but are not satisfied with it. Love is a feeling of care, feeling of remembrace, for a particular person ( if it's for many, then it's not love....it's lust...lol). Feeling of obsession ,possessiveness and insecurity can't be Love. Most of the girls have such kind of feelings. Trust is the synonym for Love. Your relationship with your partener rely on this word only. But when your partener become possessive n obsessive for you, the things start changing. Life become worst. You may think that It would be better if you would not have been committed. There will not be anything except arguments, questions, questions and more questions....of which you either don't want to answer or don't have any answer. In such situation, U would like to spend time with your friends as much as you can. Bcoz they are the only people with whom you can forget all your troubles and live to the fulliest. But are you still satisfied with all those pleasures which you are getting when you are with your frenz? The answer is NO...
So, what is the solution? You have two ways infront of you...
Either to leave your beloved (which you obviously cannot do)
or to persuade her to trust you (which she obviously cannot do....lolzz)
Well, In such situation you must leave everything to time. Let the time decide your next movements of life. What I think, If two people really LOVE each other...then inspite of all the quarrels, all the misunderstandings, all the arguments...they are (and will be) of each other...
Always remember...
Relationship is like a thread...the more you stretch it...more it get weakens.
Wish you all a very happy life with your beloved....